After a unanimous vote from 22 comments yesterday-telling me to go for it- thank you all so much!!! I decided to cancel my appt and make one for next week with my current hairdresser-
I decided this based on the following-
I think the short cut might be too drastic and not necessarily flattering to my thick curly hair- that said if thats not the cut for me- then I am not sure what is and today did not need to be the day I decided-
additionally, it looks fine now and with all of my local friends and family coming Sat to Jacks party I think that this is not the day as well-
I also feel that I have never directed my guy to what I want in the name of trusting what he said is in the parameters of what we could do based on the damage from dark on blonde back to blonde- I think when someone has been so good to me and actually my son too that I should give him a chance with input from me and then if I dont like it I can feel confident of moving on-
I also felt I spent a year undoing last spontanteous hair move and dont have another year of my life to waste looking so dreadful-as my hair did this past year.
So - thats my final decision- it was tough= I wanted to go and I agree with everything you all said-
I will do something slightly less extreme next Tue- with a person that already knows my hair and then decide-
In the meatime- I have my little jack Jacks 1st birthday party tomorrow and my husbands real birthday on Sun-
Big weekend lots to do-I decided to put my energy on them and not myself and then this whole hair worry went away-
I amsure it will be back Monday- but thanks again-
Have a great first weekend of December and I am so so excited for this weekend-
Back Monday to share pics of " Jacks Fish Shack" --
Anne